There are always certain trigger factors which help people express themselves better. There are those of us who become more sociable when we are around certain people for example our friends. But to the rest of the world we may turn out to look like an individual who keeps to themselves. There is that certain group of people or certain situations in life where most of us lose our inhibitions and bring out the daredevils in us. That is why we say there is always that someone in your life who knows the other side of you or the real you.
But the opposite can also be true
Although most of tend to become ourselves around a certain bunch of people there are some individuals out there who can’t seem to express themselves however hard they try. Be it with different people or in different surroundings. And they can’t seem to find the link that connects them to other people as well. For example ask any brewery or hand crafted beer Hong Kong and they would tell you that beer and a social drinking habit is something most people can relate. And in this they find solace and form new friendships. Because they know they have something in common with the person sitting next to them. Similarly other interests like the love for reading, a craze for a certain type of sport or even the love of food can connect people who wouldn’t have dreamt of having the other person for a friend.
But there are those out there who simply cannot find common ground with anyone around them. And most of the time this is because they are confused themselves about what it is they want exactly. It’s not like all of us are interested with taking part in beer events, but it does not mean we end up without companionship for the rest of our lives. Because there is so many things out there that people can connect over.
And it is only when we don’t know for ourselves what we like and what we don’t that we find ourselves amidst a group of people wondering to ourselves what we are doing here in the first place. So before we go looking for that person whom you can relate with you should first come to terms with who you are. Because confusion is the main reason behind the lack of confidence that most people feel and they then start to blame it on peer pressure. But it’s actually something that you need to correct within you before you start blaming the others around you.